Laced up in Ruffels

shiroyuri:

candice—chen:

Lolita Photo shoot 

On “Modesty” in Lolita Fashion

honeyed:

skulkingskullking:

One phrase that I see tossed around all the time in describing Lolita is “Lolita is a modest fashion,” by which the speaker means, “lolita clothing covers a good portion of the body.” That has always rubbed me the wrong way, and I thought I’d put down in words why I consider that description not only untrue, but actively harmful.

First of all, what does “modest” mean? It turns out that it means something very different depending on whether you’re a man or a woman. A “modestly dressed” man is wearing clothing that is simple, inexpensive, and not flashy (spoiler alert: not lolita.) A “modestly dressed” woman is covering up a lot of skin, “leaving something to the imagination,” etc. When it comes down to it, “modest” men are concealing their wealth or style. “Modest” women are concealing their bodies. 

What makes me uncomfortable is the implication that the body is what a woman should be most proud of (and therefore modest about.) The concept of female “modesty” is slut-shamey and reductive, and to claim that a $300 bow-encrusted princess dress is modest is kind of laughable.

Lolita fashion is anything but modest; it screams “look at me,” and I don’t just mean bubblegum-explosion OTT coords. Even classic and toned-down looks are anachronistic - or just unusual – enough to attract extra attention. I love lolita, and it can be many things for many people… but let’s be real, folks. It isn’t modest (and that’s ok!)

Actually, when most people are talking about clothes, modesty means exactly the same thing for women, which is why I’ve always avoided calling Lolita clothes “modest” because it’s a very ostentatious fashion, often even at its simplest (obviously there are some coords that are the exceptions).

There are tons of sites out there aimed specifically at females who want to dress modestly (just google “modest clothing for women” and like a dozen online shops that explicitly call themselves that pop up), and they pretty much always define female modesty in clothes as “simple, inexpensive, and not flashy” as well.


GOTHIC & LOLITA FASHION in Puroland 2014 Spring - 
Gifs by: Me

GOTHIC & LOLITA FASHION in Puroland 2014 Spring - 

Gifs by: Me

centurydoll:

Pictures from the NYC BtSSB opening! I know, I’m late.

missdemian:

After a really, really long time I decided to try on Gothic Lolita again & I missed it a lot <3 

http://missdemian.blogspot.co.at/

ourphunphotos:

Mmmmm, lovely.

ourphunphotos:

Mmmmm, lovely.

hyukawaiihime:

My outfit for international Lolita day… Blouse and necklace: forever 21
cardigan: cabi
skirt: haenuli
tights: rue 21 (put a piece of cardboard in them so you could see the heart print better)
shoes: Michael kors
hat: colonial williamsburg
wig: amazon
earrings: kohls
clutch: yesstyle
flowers: old ballet costumes

hyukawaiihime:

My outfit for international Lolita day…
Blouse and necklace: forever 21

cardigan: cabi

skirt: haenuli

tights: rue 21 (put a piece of cardboard in them so you could see the heart print better)

shoes: Michael kors

hat: colonial williamsburg

wig: amazon

earrings: kohls

clutch: yesstyle

flowers: old ballet costumes

hana-hisaishi:

x

wicdivstyleblog:

venneh:

asylum-art:

Erevos Aether – Wake the Serpent Not

Erevos Aether’s AW 2014-15 collection, Wake the Serpent Not, contrasts sheer, romantic, fragile textures with armorlike iridescent leather and metallic elements. The architectural qualities of this tough, invulnerable aspect combine with its softer side to create a high sci-fi look that is dark and impressive.

None more goth, kierongillen?  Also paging the wicdivstyleblog

You would be correct.

hoopzbarkley:

Ughhh please excuse the shitty pictures/face but I just opened my Haenuli package and I am SWOONING!!!

I’m so happy ;_; I cannot wait until I can twin with louhibunny!!!!!

nymia-san:

Some individual photos I took in the Garden tea Party, everyone was so amazing :D  once again, if you want your photo in full size feel free to contact me :)

genishihara:

**PLEASE DO NOT DELETE THIS TEXT**

Romantic Mermaid Wavy Brown Wig

Flower Crowns

**All clothing fits sizes Small-Medium and some are Freesize!

GIVEAWAY ENDS SEPTEMBER 1st 2014 AT MIDNIGHT EDT

Edit: If you do happen to follow me on Tumblr, i will give you an extra pair of circle lenses! ^_^

dreamymint:

Lᴏʟɪᴛᴀs ᴀᴛ Dɪsɴᴇʏ Pᴀʀᴋs

Sources: (clockwise from top left) 
JFashionlove, Cupcak3s, Criic, SmileySquid

I recently starting planning my trip to Disneyland Resort in October, I’m so excited! I’m going to wear lolita, so I looked for some inspiration. They’re all so cute!